# Are you stable enough to date? **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [August 3, 2026, 8:39am UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646 "2026-08-03T08:39:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![iloveburritos123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/cc9497/32.png) [@iloveburritos123](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/iloveburritos123)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 8:39am UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/1 "2026-08-03T08:39:19Z")
i have trouble meeting up with men ---
**Author:** ![anon80779285](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/919ad9/32.png) [@anon80779285](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/anon80779285)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 8:41am UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/2 "2026-08-03T08:41:51Z")
I’m stable, but I have to find the right type of person. Sometimes I find some people aren’t my type and due to friction of being in a relationship - I become distressed or distrustful. I guess I’ve just had terrible experiences/luck so far. ---
**Author:** ![iloveburritos123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/cc9497/32.png) [@iloveburritos123](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/iloveburritos123)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 8:43am UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/3 "2026-08-03T08:43:03Z")
but like how about meeting up with them. im always worried they’ll follow me home ---
**Author:** ![anon80779285](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/919ad9/32.png) [@anon80779285](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/anon80779285)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 9:22am UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/4 "2026-08-03T09:22:56Z")
You’ll have to make sure you’re properly medicated and maybe undergo some therapy. ---
**Author:** ![Mars](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/mars/32/4869_2.png) [@Mars](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Mars)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 4:31pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/5 "2026-08-03T16:31:26Z")
No I’m too ill. Can’t take care of someone else when I can’t take care of myself. ---
**Author:** ![Om\_Sadasiva](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/om_sadasiva/32/179_2.png) [@Om\_Sadasiva](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Om_Sadasiva)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 4:32pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/6 "2026-08-03T16:32:25Z")
> [@Mars](#): > > Can’t take care of someone else when I can’t take care of myself. Yes, so do I. Not even pets ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 4:32pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/7 "2026-08-03T16:32:41Z")
I am not stable for men, if they become ill or if they lie to me I loose the plot… good luck if that is what you would like to do, dating a man. ---
**Author:** ![iloveburritos123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/cc9497/32.png) [@iloveburritos123](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/iloveburritos123)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 7:31pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/8 "2026-08-03T19:31:54Z")
why do you need to take care of them? you don’t sound that ill from your posts ---
**Author:** ![iloveburritos123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/cc9497/32.png) [@iloveburritos123](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/iloveburritos123)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 7:36pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/9 "2026-08-03T19:36:49Z")
i want to but im worried about being followed home. idk if its worth the risk. i dont wanna be alone ---
**Author:** ![iloveburritos123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/cc9497/32.png) [@iloveburritos123](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/iloveburritos123)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 7:42pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/10 "2026-08-03T19:42:32Z")
i want someone who can help me make better decisions ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 7:51pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/11 "2026-08-03T19:51:26Z")
You gotta feel stable first tbh. But if u feel a strong connection with someone sometimes ppl can heal as a team ---
**Author:** ![iloveburritos123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/cc9497/32.png) [@iloveburritos123](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/iloveburritos123)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 7:52pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/12 "2026-08-03T19:52:12Z")
yeah. i just feel like anything can happen at anytime and it makes me worried ---
**Author:** ![iloveburritos123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/cc9497/32.png) [@iloveburritos123](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/iloveburritos123)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 7:53pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/13 "2026-08-03T19:53:37Z")
i cant take care of pets either ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 7:54pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/14 "2026-08-03T19:54:33Z")
Sorry to hear that Sometimes time can heal ---
**Author:** ![iloveburritos123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/cc9497/32.png) [@iloveburritos123](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/iloveburritos123)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 8:11pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/15 "2026-08-03T20:11:43Z")
i heard you’re cool from schizbro. do you wanna message? ---
**Author:** ![iloveburritos123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/cc9497/32.png) [@iloveburritos123](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/iloveburritos123)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 8:12pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/16 "2026-08-03T20:12:24Z")
no i dont thiunk so. schiz are victims to crime alot cause people dont know what we’re thinking ---
**Author:** ![tarnishedLotus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/tarnishedlotus/32/9331_2.png) [@tarnishedLotus](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/tarnishedLotus)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 9:51pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/17 "2026-08-03T21:51:59Z")
Not at all… My OCD would wreck me lol ---
**Author:** ![iloveburritos123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/cc9497/32.png) [@iloveburritos123](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/iloveburritos123)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 10:13pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/18 "2026-08-03T22:13:53Z")
OCD can be BAD. i rmember watching an episode of it on mtv. this girl thought she had to turn the light on and off a certain amount of times or her mom would die ---
**Author:** ![tarnishedLotus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/tarnishedlotus/32/9331_2.png) [@tarnishedLotus](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/tarnishedLotus)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 10:15pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/19 "2026-08-03T22:15:07Z")
That’s really tough… I don’t have it that bad but yea… It’s horrible . Lucky I’ve been doing pretty good with it over all … lately ---
**Author:** ![iloveburritos123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/cc9497/32.png) [@iloveburritos123](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/iloveburritos123)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2026, 10:38pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646/20 "2026-08-03T22:38:54Z")
are you on meds for it? [Next page](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/are-you-stable-enough-to-date/7646.md?page=2)