# Idk if i shoud let the hair grow on my face **URL:** \ **Category:** Unusual Beliefs\ **Created:** [March 26, 2026, 3:35pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983 "2026-03-26T15:35:48Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:35pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/1 "2026-03-26T15:35:48Z")
I kind of link it to my trauma so it is kind of stress related memories But shaving it i feel is perhaps bad for my delicate woman skin. It maybe looks better without it but i might damage my skin shaving it all the time And im hiding who i am by shaving it off. Thats how it feels. Fraud. ---
**Author:** ![Om\_Sadasiva](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/om_sadasiva/32/179_2.png) [@Om\_Sadasiva](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Om_Sadasiva)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:36pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/2 "2026-03-26T15:36:37Z")
I haven’t shaved or trimmed for over 15 years ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:37pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/3 "2026-03-26T15:37:00Z")
Thats alright. I bet it suits you. ---
**Author:** ![Om\_Sadasiva](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/om_sadasiva/32/179_2.png) [@Om\_Sadasiva](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Om_Sadasiva)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:37pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/4 "2026-03-26T15:37:31Z")
Yes. But even if it didn’t suit me, I still wouldn’t shave. It’s so boring. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:37pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/5 "2026-03-26T15:37:58Z")
I think some ppl might get confused if im a woman with facial hair. Idk… ---
**Author:** ![Schizbro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/schizbro/32/16560_2.png) [@Schizbro](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Schizbro)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:41pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/6 "2026-03-26T15:41:52Z")
Nothing wrong with doing anything reasonable to enhance your looks. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:42pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/7 "2026-03-26T15:42:52Z")
Idk if i look better with the facial hair or not ---
**Author:** ![Schizbro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/schizbro/32/16560_2.png) [@Schizbro](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Schizbro)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:43pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/8 "2026-03-26T15:43:32Z")
Generally, no, women don’t look better with facial hair. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:44pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/9 "2026-03-26T15:44:00Z")
My bf thinks i look bttr without but wat do iiii think? 🤣 ---
**Author:** ![Schizbro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/schizbro/32/16560_2.png) [@Schizbro](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Schizbro)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:44pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/10 "2026-03-26T15:44:41Z")
Appearances are for others mainly tho zoe. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:46pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/11 "2026-03-26T15:46:12Z")
What makes you say that? ---
**Author:** ![Schizbro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/schizbro/32/16560_2.png) [@Schizbro](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Schizbro)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:48pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/12 "2026-03-26T15:48:18Z")
Do you get dressed up and put makeup on when you are in house all day or longer? Its a self evident truth that we take care of our appearance for others not for ourselves. I accept myself looking like crap completely. Its other people that make me feel bad and make me try to look good. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:51pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/13 "2026-03-26T15:51:52Z")
Hmmm…they will have to adapt 🤣🤣🤣 Im not their property Well idk yet if its wat i want ---
**Author:** ![Schizbro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/schizbro/32/16560_2.png) [@Schizbro](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Schizbro)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:53pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/14 "2026-03-26T15:53:41Z")
Your choice, but you might not like peoples reactions. Im a man but i dont have good facial hair compared to some men and look bad when i dont shave. So i shave when i go in intensly social situations ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:55pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/15 "2026-03-26T15:55:16Z")
I saw ur pic i think u look fine. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Schizbro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/schizbro/32/16560_2.png) [@Schizbro](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Schizbro)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:56pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/16 "2026-03-26T15:56:37Z")
My looks change drastically. The pic i posted is current and im not looking my best. When Im at my best i did get attention from women but its hard for me to maintain due to illness i guess ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:58pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/17 "2026-03-26T15:58:14Z")
Yeh i know what you mean. It is hard to maintain especially excericise is hard and does not feel as endorphin exciting as before. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 3:58pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/18 "2026-03-26T15:58:59Z")
If you try your best that is alright. You do not need to destroy yourself over over exerting effort ---
**Author:** ![Schizbro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/schizbro/32/16560_2.png) [@Schizbro](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Schizbro)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:01pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/19 "2026-03-26T16:01:00Z")
Im past my prime anyway. My looks will improve a bit in the summer but my health is not great, so I dont feel like sex much. I dont really care about my apprarance that much. I accept myself but people can act different to you based in appearance ---
**Author:** ![WhiteRaven](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/whiteraven/32/5401_2.png) [@WhiteRaven](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/WhiteRaven)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:04pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/20 "2026-03-26T16:04:25Z")
I get facial hair, too…I used to spend a lot of time plucking each one individually with tweezers, but now I just shave about once a week. I don’t really care what others think, I just didn’t like how it felt on my chin and jaw. It started growing more after my hysterectomy… [Next page](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983.md?page=2)