# Idk if i shoud let the hair grow on my face **URL:** \ **Category:** Unusual Beliefs\ **Created:** [March 26, 2026, 3:35pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983 "2026-03-26T15:35:48Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:07pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/21 "2026-03-26T16:07:32Z")
Sorry to hear u get facial hair too. Its a bit of a nuisance. But im sure you are beautiful because the personality shines through the skin creating a different kind of beauty. I just feel im fat anyway so look ugly physically so why bother shaving my face untill im slim. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:08pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/22 "2026-03-26T16:08:45Z")
Might as well shoo the guys away properly and grow a beard haha ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:12pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/23 "2026-03-26T16:12:00Z")
Wud it not b beaitiful for ppl incuding guys to b attracted to who i am instead of who i trim myself into? Thats a motivation for just being ‘natural’ It is a way to sieve out ppl who are time wasters for me. ---
**Author:** ![Schizbro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/schizbro/32/16560_2.png) [@Schizbro](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Schizbro)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:15pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/24 "2026-03-26T16:15:49Z")
Possibly. Theres people who would love you for who you are and use you also if they think youre vulnerable bevause you show lack of self care. Point is someone who seems to accept you for you is not necessarily good. Facial hair is not you. Just like having a mole is not you. Those are blemishes. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:17pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/25 "2026-03-26T16:17:04Z")
So only if i had smooth skin, that would be me? Lol.. ---
**Author:** ![Wave](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/wave/32/14465_2.png) [@Wave](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Wave)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:17pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/26 "2026-03-26T16:17:14Z")
I’ve got a beard growing but I’m a guy. Most males prefer smooth shaven females. But it’s your body and you do what you prefer. ---
**Author:** ![Schizbro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/schizbro/32/16560_2.png) [@Schizbro](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Schizbro)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:18pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/27 "2026-03-26T16:18:45Z")
No. Youre not blemishes and scars and hairs or your appearance. If there were no reflective surfaces in this world you would just be a first person perspective without knowledge of any of that. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:21pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/28 "2026-03-26T16:21:32Z")
I find growing my facial hair is self care because otherwise my skin might get damaged as a female shaving the face, and its stressful worrying, oh , what if a hair was missed and is poking out my face 😬, plus it is costly. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:23pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/29 "2026-03-26T16:23:42Z")
On the other hand, I like the idea of men liking my face. But my vaginal vulva is ugly to men, so why bother trying to trim my face the way men like if one part of me is ugly to them aready. Its like a loosing game. Might as well focus on my personality etc. ---
**Author:** ![Schizbro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/schizbro/32/16560_2.png) [@Schizbro](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Schizbro)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:23pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/30 "2026-03-26T16:23:48Z")
I completely agree you should be able to go au naturelle or whatever, but you will find people will act different towards you in subtle ways and sometimes maybe obvious ways. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:25pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/31 "2026-03-26T16:25:47Z")
Thanks 4 the honesty 💝 ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:28pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/32 "2026-03-26T16:28:45Z")
You are really tall! That is a handsome trait. Btw guys i just passed heathrow; saw some planes landing. ---
**Author:** ![Schizbro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/schizbro/32/16560_2.png) [@Schizbro](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Schizbro)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:32pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/33 "2026-03-26T16:32:41Z")
Thanks, I used to be short. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 4:41pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/34 "2026-03-26T16:41:48Z")
Looool! Okay i guess that is balance for you. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 6:00pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/35 "2026-03-26T18:00:34Z")
I kind of want to shave it now but then wen im older n cant find the energy to shave n it has grown thicker, ppl will be shocked ---
**Author:** ![Schizbro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/schizbro/32/16560_2.png) [@Schizbro](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Schizbro)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 6:02pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/36 "2026-03-26T18:02:02Z")
Older women are more expected to have facial hairs. ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 6:04pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/37 "2026-03-26T18:04:09Z")
Thx for the support. I guess that could b true ---
**Author:** ![see121](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7cd45c/32.png) [@see121](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/see121)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 8:29pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/38 "2026-03-26T20:29:12Z")
Maybe have your facial hair waxed at a salon/spa. Or you can invest in electrolysis.❤ ---
**Author:** ![Zoe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zoe/32/7475_2.png) [@Zoe](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Zoe)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2026, 9:46pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/39 "2026-03-26T21:46:17Z")
Thanks @see121 unfortunately those ones do not work for me. But i think i have come to peace with shaving ---
**Author:** ![Loke](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/loke/32/304_2.png) [@Loke](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Loke)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2026, 1:04am UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983/40 "2026-03-27T01:04:44Z")
I have a mustache it’s embarrassing. I shave it. It’s not fraud to shave your mustache. [Previous page](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983.md?page=1) [Next page](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/idk-if-i-shoud-let-the-hair-grow-on-my-face/3983.md?page=3)