# I'm fed up with people pleasing **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [January 13, 2026, 1:07pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/im-fed-up-with-people-pleasing/1625 "2026-01-13T13:07:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Ish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/e5b9ba/32.png) [@Ish](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Ish)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2026, 1:07pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/im-fed-up-with-people-pleasing/1625/1 "2026-01-13T13:07:10Z")
Because no matter what I do, no one is actually “pleased”… just ends up making me feel like I’m useless…. because I am in their eyes. useless because I don’t work, useless because I don’t cook the foods they like or eat… im always gonna be useless to them no matter what. time to be who I want to be and do what I want to do. for me. ---
**Author:** ![Vinegar](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/vinegar/32/178_2.png) [@Vinegar](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Vinegar)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2026, 1:23pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/im-fed-up-with-people-pleasing/1625/2 "2026-01-13T13:23:06Z")
I completely agree. You can’t please everybody all the time. I gave up people pleasing years ago. When I am asked to do things and it is going to be too difficult for me I just say “no”. And it means I am not always liked by everybody but that’s okay. ---
**Author:** ![SzSupportAdmin](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/szsupportadmin/32/334_2.png) [@SzSupportAdmin](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/SzSupportAdmin)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2026, 10:07am UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/im-fed-up-with-people-pleasing/1625/3 "2026-01-27T10:07:30Z")