# My cousin died just found out **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [August 14, 2026, 7:10pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004 "2026-08-14T19:10:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jukebox](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b487fb/32.png) [@jukebox](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/jukebox)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2026, 7:10pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/1 "2026-08-14T19:10:33Z")
I had lunch with mom just a while ago and she informed me that Gay had died…pancreatic cancer…kept it to her and her twin sister and now she’s gone with no funeral…I cried when she told me…nothing like crying in a restaurant , right? oh well…she was a nice person…i will miss her. ---
**Author:** ![Joker](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/joker/32/13470_2.png) [@Joker](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Joker)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2026, 7:21pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/2 "2026-08-14T19:21:53Z")
Sorry to hear that @jukebox my condolences ---
**Author:** ![Catman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/catman/32/14_2.png) [@Catman](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Catman)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2026, 7:25pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/3 "2026-08-14T19:25:16Z")
@jukebox I’m sorry for your loss. Some people just want to be a ray of sunshine, so that may be why she didn’t talk about her cancer. Take care of yourself during this difficult time. ---
**Author:** ![SzSupportAdmin](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/szsupportadmin/32/334_2.png) [@SzSupportAdmin](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/SzSupportAdmin)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2026, 7:29pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/4 "2026-08-14T19:29:05Z")
I’m sorry for your loss @jukebox ---
**Author:** ![FreeLunch](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/freelunch/32/1001_2.png) [@FreeLunch](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/FreeLunch)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2026, 7:35pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/5 "2026-08-14T19:35:57Z")
Sorry for your loss man ---
**Author:** ![Lilyofthevalley](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/lilyofthevalley/32/52_2.png) [@Lilyofthevalley](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Lilyofthevalley)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2026, 7:36pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/6 "2026-08-14T19:36:52Z")
So no one knew what she was going through?! I feel so bad for her that she didn’t accept family support and for you and your family for the sudden and unexpected loss. How awful. ---
**Author:** ![Vinegar](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/vinegar/32/178_2.png) [@Vinegar](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Vinegar)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2026, 7:47pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/7 "2026-08-14T19:47:25Z")
So sorry for your loss. ---
**Author:** ![zytroxide](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/zytroxide/32/14764_2.png) [@zytroxide](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/zytroxide)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2026, 7:53pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/8 "2026-08-14T19:53:52Z")
very sorry about this, i know it must be really rough on you guys. ---
**Author:** ![jukebox](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b487fb/32.png) [@jukebox](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/jukebox)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2026, 8:37pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/9 "2026-08-14T20:37:01Z")
she was such a great person…she was a teacher…she always stayed way private in her life with her twin Kay. no way around it…sad sad. thank you everyone for caring. ---
**Author:** ![2Waynez](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/2waynez/32/176_2.png) [@2Waynez](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/2Waynez)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2026, 10:34pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/10 "2026-08-14T22:34:36Z")
Sorry to hear ---
**Author:** ![Ducky](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/ducky/32/13243_2.png) [@Ducky](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Ducky)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2026, 10:38pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/11 "2026-08-14T22:38:02Z")
Aww really sad ---
**Author:** ![jukebox](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b487fb/32.png) [@jukebox](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/jukebox)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2026, 3:14am UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/12 "2026-08-15T03:14:30Z")
thank you both. ---
**Author:** ![Montezuma](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/montezuma/32/362_2.png) [@Montezuma](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Montezuma)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2026, 7:54am UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/13 "2026-08-15T07:54:02Z")
Damn, dude. So sorry for your loss. May your cousin rest peacefully. Take care Juke. 🫂 ---
**Author:** ![Vaiana](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/vaiana/32/1879_2.png) [@Vaiana](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Vaiana)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2026, 9:13am UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/14 "2026-08-15T09:13:43Z")
I’m sorry for your loss 🫂 ---
**Author:** ![Schizbro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/schizbro/32/15631_2.png) [@Schizbro](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Schizbro)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2026, 2:55pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/15 "2026-08-15T14:55:09Z")
Sorry man. RIP ---
**Author:** ![Sunshine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Sunshine](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Sunshine)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2026, 3:59pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/16 "2026-08-15T15:59:41Z")
Sorry for your loss @jukebox ---
**Author:** ![Rainstorm](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/rainstorm/32/242_2.png) [@Rainstorm](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Rainstorm)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2026, 4:01pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/17 "2026-08-15T16:01:57Z")
Sorry for your loss ---
**Author:** ![Qwerty](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/qwerty/32/10_2.png) [@Qwerty](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/Qwerty)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2026, 5:02pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/18 "2026-08-15T17:02:53Z")
So sorry to hear this. Am I reading correct… their names were gay and Kay ? ---
**Author:** ![POET](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/poet/32/485_2.png) [@POET](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/POET)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2026, 5:07pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/19 "2026-08-15T17:07:40Z")
My condolences juke… God bless them ---
**Author:** ![jukebox](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b487fb/32.png) [@jukebox](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/u/jukebox)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2026, 8:41pm UTC](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004/20 "2026-08-15T20:41:44Z")
@Qwerty yes they were twins named kay and gay. [Next page](https://schizophreniasupport.discourse.group/t/my-cousin-died-just-found-out/8004.md?page=2)