A question for other men

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I’ve been wondering if anyone wonders in a NON TRANS way what its like to be a woman like for me ive always wanted too see what its like being pregnant and giving birth too see if its REALLY that bad

Anyone else get these thoughts

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I’m sure it’s ok to think about it. Ive never really thought about it.

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I think everyone is unique in their thought wanderings.

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I have never thought about it.

I prefer being a man

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There’s a book by Octavia e. Butler that has someone turn into a mollusk. But that’s quite different I guess

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No, I haven’t had those thoughts.

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When I was younger, yes. I think it’s a natural curiosity.

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I guess that’s like a woman wondering how bad on a scale of 1-10 it hurts to get kicked in the nads.

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Lmao probably about as much as getting punched in the boba :face_with_tongue:

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I tore from one end to the other, I tore on the inside, I hemorrhaged, my heart started failing from all the stress, and my whole body was twitching from lack of oxygen until they got my oxygen back up. YES. IT’S THAT BAD.

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Wow that sounds scary very scary I didnt know that could happen

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Yeah, it can. Lots of things can go wrong giving birth.

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@Lilyofthevalley is spot on. It’s really not something you want to go through out of curiosity, and although they apparently have those simulators that can mimic the pain, I bet it’s nothing like shoving out a baby.

Pregnancy gave me heart problems, too! Some women get pre-eclampsia or gestational diabetes; plus, there’s morning sickness which can get so bad it has a special name (hyperemesis gravidarum) and requires hospital visits.

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:fearful::fearful::fearful::fearful::fearful::fearful::fearful::fearful::fearful:

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I like women but I am a man and I am ok with that, it might have been easier growing up as a woman in a lot of ways compared to a man (maybe) but I dot care, I am what I am!

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You ever seen Minority Report? There’s a line in that movie that talks about men using VR to experience physical intimacy as women. I think it’s a natural curiosity that presents itself in heterosexuals as well as others.

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When in doubt I always listen to a phil collins song and I feel better.

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@Lilyofthevalley that must have been horrible…so sorry.

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That is so scary!

@Lilyofthevalley

I’m glad you made it through.

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@jukebox it was. But i survived it. And I gave my daughter now and I’m very grateful for that.

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