Sorry to hear u get facial hair too. Its a bit of a nuisance. But im sure you are beautiful because the personality shines through the skin creating a different kind of beauty.
I just feel im fat anyway so look ugly physically so why bother shaving my face untill im slim.
Possibly. Theres people who would love you for who you are and use you also if they think youre vulnerable bevause you show lack of self care. Point is someone who seems to accept you for you is not necessarily good.
Facial hair is not you. Just like having a mole is not you. Those are blemishes.
I find growing my facial hair is self care because otherwise my skin might get damaged as a female shaving the face, and its stressful worrying, oh , what if a hair was missed and is poking out my face , plus it is costly.
I like the idea of men liking my face. But my vaginal vulva is ugly to men, so why bother trying to trim my face the way men like if one part of me is ugly to them aready. Its like a loosing game.
I completely agree you should be able to go au naturelle or whatever, but you will find people will act different towards you in subtle ways and sometimes maybe obvious ways.