Idk if i shoud let the hair grow on my face

Sorry to hear u get facial hair too. Its a bit of a nuisance. But im sure you are beautiful because the personality shines through the skin creating a different kind of beauty.

I just feel im fat anyway so look ugly physically so why bother shaving my face untill im slim.

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Might as well shoo the guys away properly and grow a beard haha

Wud it not b beaitiful for ppl incuding guys to b attracted to who i am instead of who i trim myself into?

Thats a motivation for just being ‘natural’

It is a way to sieve out ppl who are time wasters for me.

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Possibly. Theres people who would love you for who you are and use you also if they think youre vulnerable bevause you show lack of self care. Point is someone who seems to accept you for you is not necessarily good.

Facial hair is not you. Just like having a mole is not you. Those are blemishes.

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So only if i had smooth skin, that would be me? Lol..

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I’ve got a beard growing but I’m a guy.

Most males prefer smooth shaven females.

But it’s your body and you do what you prefer.

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No. Youre not blemishes and scars and hairs or your appearance.

If there were no reflective surfaces in this world you would just be a first person perspective without knowledge of any of that.

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I find growing my facial hair is self care because otherwise my skin might get damaged as a female shaving the face, and its stressful worrying, oh , what if a hair was missed and is poking out my face :grimacing:, plus it is costly.

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On the other hand,

I like the idea of men liking my face. But my vaginal vulva is ugly to men, so why bother trying to trim my face the way men like if one part of me is ugly to them aready. Its like a loosing game.

Might as well focus on my personality etc.

I completely agree you should be able to go au naturelle or whatever, but you will find people will act different towards you in subtle ways and sometimes maybe obvious ways.

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Thanks 4 the honesty :heart_with_ribbon:

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You are really tall! That is a handsome trait.

Btw guys i just passed heathrow; saw some planes landing.

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Thanks, I used to be short.

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Looool! Okay i guess that is balance for you.

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I kind of want to shave it now but then wen im older n cant find the energy to shave n it has grown thicker, ppl will be shocked

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Older women are more expected to have facial hairs.

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Thx for the support. I guess that could b true

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Maybe have your facial hair waxed at a salon/spa. Or you can invest in electrolysis.:heart:

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Thanks @see121 unfortunately those ones do not work for me.

But i think i have come to peace with shaving

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I have a mustache it’s embarrassing. I shave it. It’s not fraud to shave your mustache.

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