Idk if i shoud let the hair grow on my face

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I kind of link it to my trauma so it is kind of stress related memories

But shaving it i feel is perhaps bad for my delicate woman skin.

It maybe looks better without it but i might damage my skin shaving it all the time

And im hiding who i am by shaving it off.

Thats how it feels. Fraud.

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I haven’t shaved or trimmed for over 15 years

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Thats alright. I bet it suits you.

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Yes. But even if it didn’t suit me, I still wouldn’t shave. It’s so boring.

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I think some ppl might get confused if im a woman with facial hair. Idk…

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Nothing wrong with doing anything reasonable to enhance your looks.

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Idk if i look better with the facial hair or not

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Generally, no, women don’t look better with facial hair.

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My bf thinks i look bttr without but wat do iiii think? :rofl:

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Appearances are for others mainly tho zoe.

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What makes you say that?

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Do you get dressed up and put makeup on when you are in house all day or longer?

Its a self evident truth that we take care of our appearance for others not for ourselves. I accept myself looking like crap completely. Its other people that make me feel bad and make me try to look good.

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Hmmm…they will have to adapt :rofl::rofl::rofl:

Im not their property

Well idk yet if its wat i want

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Your choice, but you might not like peoples reactions. Im a man but i dont have good facial hair compared to some men and look bad when i dont shave. So i shave when i go in intensly social situations

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I saw ur pic i think u look fine. :slight_smile:

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My looks change drastically. The pic i posted is current and im not looking my best. When Im at my best i did get attention from women but its hard for me to maintain due to illness i guess

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Yeh i know what you mean. It is hard to maintain especially excericise is hard and does not feel as endorphin exciting as before.

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If you try your best that is alright. You do not need to destroy yourself over over exerting effort

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Im past my prime anyway. My looks will improve a bit in the summer but my health is not great, so I dont feel like sex much. I dont really care about my apprarance that much. I accept myself but people can act different to you based in appearance

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I get facial hair, too…I used to spend a lot of time plucking each one individually with tweezers, but now I just shave about once a week. I don’t really care what others think, I just didn’t like how it felt on my chin and jaw. It started growing more after my hysterectomy…

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