- Sexual
- Asexual
Still trying to determine that so I won’t answer. I do crave sex but my libido has always been on the low side. With meds though I think it’s affected even more. Might speak to a doctor about that.
I’m barely sexual anymore
I better not say, bit of a sensitive matter to me.
Not interested in a partner or dating but I do have a libido, so I guess that means sexual.
I just like to keep an open mind,
No,that means only imagination.I had dirty thoughts as a child..
I feel I fluctuate between the two so I did not vote. Currently I’m closer to asexual. But do crave connection and closeness with someone. I also do have trauma related to that. So. But when I was on abilify it made me hypersexual. Just started a new med and waiting to see what happens.
I found it helpful to stop thinking of my intrusive thoughts as good or bad, and instead come to see them as either wanted or unwanted. Sometimes there was a part of me that wanted them and a part that didn’t, which caused me to feel emotional distress. But I found other people who accepted the things that I was ashamed of, and that helped me to stop seeing them as bad or wrong. Once I stopped seeing them that way, the emotional charge wasn’t so bad, and it was easier to just think of them as unwanted. Sometimes acceptance is part of letting-go.
I just got booty called yesterday. She’s gonna fly up for a weekendddd. (She broke up with her boyfriend recently)
No desires completely off on these meds
Mostly celibate. Haven’t been infatuated really, since 2022.
I’m not really interested in women on zyprexa. I was a predator on perphenazine. I dated a couple girls and hooked up with one on that drug. I’m almost glad my sex drive tampered down. I feel fine about not having a relationship or having sex.
In my 50’s I was almost obsessed with sex. It’s all I thought about, so much that I thought I had a sex addiction, I even bought the Basic Text of Sex Addicts Anonymous and read it and looked for meetings in my area. I wasn’t having physical sex with anyone, for the most part, at least not for free, but I looked at porn every chance I got, sometimes 6-8 times a day. Thank god when I reached my 60’s the obsession died down, now I can go days without watching porn, I forget all about it. No sex addiction, just a very horny phase in my life, lol. What a relief.
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Frankly, when I was in my thirties or forties, I like f*u*c*king evey much. I Just had been watching porn a lot. Nowadays, I just watch porn occasionally. I am in my fifties. My sex drive fade off Gradually.
ive been struggling … and I don’t even think its the meds… I might be asexual. I just want to give up now.
Man im 38 and I feel like you do in your 60s got no drive no giddy up
Gotta hubby. We like to play in the bouncy castle every week. Not as much as we used to. We are slowing down. .