I feel mistreated and like I’m getting a bad deal and don’t even know it. Irl it seems people really want to harm me to the point of me not existing…
It sucks .I am grateful for you guys on the forum tho
I feel mistreated and like I’m getting a bad deal and don’t even know it. Irl it seems people really want to harm me to the point of me not existing…
It sucks .I am grateful for you guys on the forum tho
What kinds of things are people doing?
I use to play this game but not anymore. I won’t give them the satisfaction
It’s tough It really is when your in it but people aren’t bad.
Problem is finding the right ones and as an incredibly social person of soon to be 56 years of age it’s a work in progress…as it always is…
So> people love to talk about themselves. Good. Gives you some access so you can include yourself and your thoughts and feelings…but you pick and choose those you like and respond too and those that don’t.
It’s so hard to describe but don’t give up! Social skills are learnable and we are often those who don’t learn them fast nor appropriately but I’ve found…as an incredibly social person with heaps of friends I’ve gotten it wrong so many times…
Look for people who listen to you in the good times and the bad. Avoid those who take from you mentally, financially and morally and just keep yourself open to new interactions. It really does help!
Thanks man ..yea honestly I’ve found that people are friendly in certain places but some people just tear me down. It’s mad me me angry and negative and that makes it harder.
I think I’m gonna have to get a job so I will try to be as friendly as possible without being weird. I never realize how cruel and hateful people are when they feel you deserve it.
I hope I’m free one day man…fresh air!!!
Thank you for the kind words and advice