Do physical looks matter,

I admire good people more than beautiful ones. But physical beauty of a face is something magical.

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yeh beautiful guys physically is like a wow thing for me. idk how else to explain it. i mean first glance in particular.

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yeh i guess care is sometimes to say something if it might help them but i always feel like i will offend or make them feel controlled. its a toughy but practice makes perfect, lol :slight_smile:

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i Like the idea of blossoming together that is beautiful poetry. I have a thing for flowers for symbolism reasons and sorry that u struggle with the paranoia or ‘paranoia’ thing too a little bit

@Schztuna

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no looks dont matter. all that matters is personality to me

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I think a lot of different things create attraction, if that’s what you’re talking about. There are handsome men, you might not be attracted to, because of other things. A lot of women are extremely competitive so they may seem threatening.

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sure physical looks matter. but I do tend to see people in a different light as I get to know them. somebody might be very good looking but a horrible person, I don’t see that attractive. and vice versa. I have grown to understand attractiveness is much more than looking good.

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I’m attracted to people opposite of me. Personality is the biggest factor.

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Yes they matter, but at the same time people come to accept a person as they are even if they are not attractive.

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Looks matter in certain cases, yes - but not in all cases.

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People are mean. Looks or no looks. Some people I’ve met are really twisted. I like people who are real and authentic, for me it’s how safe I feel around them that attracts me to them now.

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Yeah, looks do matter. More than they should. Some of it is biology and it’s hardwired.

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looks alone mean nothing imo. like for example if you see someone whos considered somewhat conventionally attractive at one point and then find out how they are the secretary of homeland security and actively involved in ICE operations and that she shot her own puppy rather than properly training or correcting it. now all i see is something out of saurons army from LOTR

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I used to think that every woman wanted a Hemsworth, but from what I’ve learned in my life, people have types. Some girls are actually into short guys believe it or not, or stocky guys, or dad bods. It may not be the majority of them, but with billions of girls on the Earth you don’t need it to be.

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I think everything matters but there must be a balance

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