I dont want 2 hav kids unusual belief trigger

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I dont want kids wat if they are ill and the chronic stress.

Money etc

But im under the impression that wat if we are reincarnated here and if i dont have kids i will become locked up behind a computer screen? Forever.

So, how can i stop this?

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This might not be true.

But what if it is??

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Behind a computer screen or who knows where else i would end up if i dont hav children, on earth

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Surely the universe wants me to be happy and thus is ok if i dont have babies…

But!, what if im not following the plan of the universe and need to be stronger or else

…

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Nobody knows the exact nature of existential occurence / recurrence but how would not having kids change your own fate in that regard?

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I would re incarnate in one of them or something like that. Idk exactly how it works.

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Like in Being John Mallkovitch?

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I dunno that movie

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Its a dumb movie. Fun tho.

So.. you reincarnate into one, but not the other ones?

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Yea , i guess so. Would feel bizarre to be in both at the same time or switching around.

Im not sure how all that works but just guessing

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If thats a possibility there are likely lots of other possibilities that we also cant be sure about

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True.

Then again! It could be if i have kids out of fear, i will THEN be locked up behind a computer forever or somewhere awful because i made a fear driven decision…

Who da â– â– â– â–  knows???

:sneezing_face:

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A basic way of thinking about controlling your destiny or anything is first to understand or know how it works. Nobody knows therefore you cant control it. Is it safer to have kids from a speculative existential standpoint… no not really in the long run.

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Ok this might be helping..probably, the universe just wants happy people why would they want me to make decisions that screw up my peace of mind?

I just wana b independant especially considering my age, my financial debts, no job, my struggle with relationships, my mental health…etc…

I hope its okay

..

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Thx @Schizbro for da input.

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Hey Zoe I don’t think you’ll get locked up behind a computer screen. Who knows what happens so do whatever you feel is right for you.

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Having a child can trigger psychosis, something to watch out for if ever it materialises as an option

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Thanks @mars thats true. Do whatever feels good cos thats how humans work.

To seek out happiness and avoid suffering.

At least thats how i seem to work.

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Exactly, if im prone to stress related psychosis and now decide to have kids out of fear, i dont think that will be joyful consequences it will all be based on fear

I believe in the saying if in doubt, dont.

So i dont want

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At the same time, my intuition says that i should have children because it is the way of nature and a necessity for me.

Its hard to go against my intuition.

I just realise that maybe its a timing thing; im just not in a place for kids now thus why the fears: Around stress, time taken on kids, the what ifs that could happn to the kids.

I want my bf to be the dad but i dont feel compatbl wid him so how can he be the dad

I always see ppl like my enemies or watnot wen we r together. I feel sub.

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