Ok. Good. I’m glad you’re calling
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Yes that is horrible. Close your eyes and mentally throw that memory away. Let it drift out of sight. Now think about a beautiful strong memory. It can be anything. Think about it with concentration.
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Oh I’m so sorry @Qwerty
Praying for you and your friend
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Ohhh my gosh this is serious
I really hope things improve, it looks bad for your neighbor
but for your sake, I hope you have someone to talk to, to process the trauma and possibly grief
Sorry I haven’t replied sooner, I didn’t see the thread. Wishing you both well.
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Wishing you and your neighbour a quick recovery.
Glad you are ok and prayers for your neighbour.
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Morning all. Feeling a bit better this morning. Beeen on a walk.
I have my friends dog with me at the moment. She is a beautiful thing. So well behaved unlike my pug.
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Try and chill out if you can @Qwerty you and your friend have been through a lot
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hey qwerty, glad your feeling a bit better. Hope your having a blessed morning 
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Not doing good again.
Perhaps this is what borderline personality feels like. In any case I don’t like it.
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Maybe try to rationalise whole situation. Like your experience,neighbour’s health,psychological and physical things .
Just simplifiy all what happened. And take walks always help.
Avoid triggers ..
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Maybe you could listen to ASMR or a relaxing music and do something therapeutic like drawing or coloring at the same time
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Nah. You’ve been through an extremely stressful ordeal. It’s normal for a while to have waves of moods etc while going through the shock and pain of the trauma.
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Hey @Qwerty , how are you doing now?
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My neighbour didn’t have a lisence to drive.
I have a lot of questions. Meeting with the investigating police officer next week.
I’ve picked up again @Lilyofthevalley just had a nice cool shower. Boys back in school tomorrow so will give me a bit of space to process things.
I hope you’re all good.
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Wow. I wonder if he was trying to drive to the hospital since his kidneys failed - he must have felt really sick. Many people try to save money on an ambulance by driving themselves
I’m glad your kids go back to school tomorrow. That’ll give you some peace for a bit
@Lilyofthevalley he was taking me to get a new TV.
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Oh! I thought you were each in your own cars. I get it now. Man, what was he thinking. And that’s unfair to you because it resulted in major trauma to both of you. I’m so sorry
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Can an admin please put a trigger warning on this post.
These are some of my injuries. I didn’t realise how bad it actually looked.
-Sorry @Qwerty , we got a flag on the post. Pictures a bit too graphic for some. Had to remove - @SzSupportAdmin
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It’s ok @Lilyofthevalley
Glad it makes sense to you now.
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@TheCanuk @sweetpotatopie @SzSupportAdmin she asked for a TW on this post. Thanks!
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