I was in a really bad car wreck yesterday TW. Graphic content

Very bad pain today.

Not looking good for my neighbour. Possiblity he could be brain dead. Will know more next week.

I’m very angry cos the investigating police officer has told me he has no lisence to drive.

Going through a lot.

Will see my GP on Monday if pain no better.

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At least,you doesn’t have to feel guilty for your neighbour … Glad that police did they’re report.

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I’m so sorry for your neighbor and I’m glad you’re okay

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im so sorry to hear that qwerty… you must be devistated.. so sorry dunno how i can help but if you need anything lmk

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Yeah, that really sucks that he risked not only his own life but others as well. There’s usually a solid reason why people lose their license and it takes a lot to earn it back.

I’m sorry you’re in so much pain, and I’m sorry about the turmoil of a mix of emotions towards your neighbor who may not make it.

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Ty. Have had a full on meltdown today. My head is very very fucked yo right now. I think I could do with respite.

Trying to give myself some grace.

I appreciate you guys.

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That’s completely understandable. Take good care of yourself, whatever you need. Don’t be afraid to ask for help

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Fortunately you’re safe

I hope your neighbor will be safe too

I wish you a good recovery

Surround yourself with family and friends to help you in this difficult time

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I’ve rang crisis. Someone is ringing me back this afternoon.

I need respite. I can’t function right now. I’m not thinking straight and my head is just fucked.

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Good job. I’m glad you asked for help. Respite sounds good

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I’ve been out late afternoon. I went to see a friend and I chilled out. I’m feeling a bit better this evening. But I think it will hit me again at some point.

Roll on Monday when I can actually speak to my treatment team.

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well respite I guess is always an option if you want? true? good luck…I hate that this happened to you.

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Hang in there

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Thankyoy. It’s 1:45. I’ve had about 4 hours sleep but now I’m struggling.

I might ring crisis.

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Just talk to us while you wait. Start working through the trauma by writing a letter to yourself about how you feel. Try deep breathing and meditation. In a few days Go to a gym and try karate or kung fu. Exercising releases emotions. Try yoga. Work through the pain. Draw. Color. Paint. Whatever it takes to work through it.

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How are you doing now? You posted a half hour ago so I’m hoping you’re a little better

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Ty @sweetpotatopie tried ringing. But in a queue and I hung up. I’ve reached out to friends and family on Facebook instead waiting to hear if anyone is actually awake.

My head is absaloutly fucked.

I can’t get the image of my friend kit my head. After we crashed he was hanging out the drivers side window. All I could see were his legs and one was wrapped around the steering wheel broken. He died next to me. I heard them all resuscitating him while I waited for an ambulance myself.

I can’t get this ■■■■ out ky head. He didn’t ■■■■■■■ deserve this. Neither did I.

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@Lilyofthevalley not good.

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That’s so awful! Please know that your response is totally normal. Don’t hesitate to reach out and wake someone up. If you can’t, call crisis back and talk on here while you wait

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Gonna ring crisis back. Cheers.

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