We’re not close but I’m worried about him,
He is having trouble regulating his blood pressure and pulse so they transferred him to a bigger hospital for testing.
I’m hoping he’s ok. It makes me realize that I should try to connect with him before he dies.
He was so abusive growing up he lost parental rights. But he became a better person but I still haven’t become close with him because his wife is nasty to me. But I need to get over that and be a bigger person in this.
I wish I could be closer to my Dad too. He travels overseas a lot but I know he loves me and we are always happy to see each other when we see each other. He gave me a quilt for Christmas that he made.
People can change but you are really going to see him so you can have closure. If he’s going to stress you out though, just wish him well and try to enjoy the holidays with those who love you.
You’re right. Closure is nice if you can have it. I’ll visit him in the hospital and see how it goes.
Sorry. It sounds like a bit of a complex situation. Hope it all works out in a way that gives you peace of mind.
Thanks @SzSupportAdmin . Yeah, family situations can be complex. Mine especially. Lots of issues. I was emancipated at 16. But I’m close to my mom now. Things can change. They take effort but it can be different sometimes than it was before.
wishing you all the best 
im sure he’ll be ok, and its really good you want to reconcile with him. Your a good person… it will give him more peace of heart during his recovery.
Thanks @POET . The tests show he’s in A-Fib. They’re doing a procedure Monday morning to see what’s going on and what should be done about it. He said it’s so bad he can’t stand or walk so it’s pretty severe.
im very sorry to hear that @Lilyofthevalley .. im praying for health for your dad. im not entirely sure what a-fib is, i googled it and it said something about irregular heart beats. Wishing the best for you guys! i know its hard, but hope you can stay positive thinking in all this
A-Fib (Atrial Fibrillation) medicines are drugs used to manage irregular heartbeats by controlling heart rate, restoring normal rhythm, and preventing blood clots that can cause strokes, primarily using blood thinners (anticoagulants), rate controllers (beta-blockers, calcium channel blockers), and rhythm controllers (antiarrhythmics).
Thanks for the info @POET . My dad is already on meds for it but they’re no longer working. He needs something different done. Hopefully it’s not a big deal.
Yes, family is important.My father was also abusive when I was young, but now I call him every day I don’t want to loose him without bounding