Man, it’s been a long time, and I’m nervous. I’m excited too, though.
I decided at age 36 that I was done dating, done with relationships. I was just over it, and since then I have not missed it, until recently. Sometimes I get lonely and miss the company of a good, supportive gf. So, a week ago I got on Match, was quickly messaged by a couple of women, one of whom I’ve been chatting with every day since then. Our first date is tonight.
Well, 46 years old and back at it, perhaps. I’ll see how it goes.
Thanks, y’all. We’re meeting at a sports bar in the small town she lives in. It’s over an hour away from me, but we agreed if we decide on a second date she will drive up to my town.
It’s a local sports bar chain; I suggested it because they have great bar food, wings and burgers and such. I’ll be going more for the company and the food, rather than alcohol, though I’ll have one or maybe two beers. I don’t normally like bars at all, unless there’s good food involved, or perhaps for a date.
We met outside of the bar. The food was good, but the service sucked, plus it was very busy and loud.
From there we tried to find a coffee shop or some other quiet place that was open but had no luck, so we drove to a little park and she got into my car and we just talked for close to an hour.
As we were saying our goodbyes she said, “you’re getting out of the car to hug me.” So I got out, hugged her, then started kissing her. I didn’t get to go back to her place, but hey I did get boob, so that’s pretty good.