it’s my fault…I disobeyed her and did something I needed, a vice..I won’t say what…I broke my promise to her and she may leave me…very, very upset right now…as a matter of fact, I’m crying right now…don’t want to leave her…threw away my vice but it might be too late…she’s not speaking to me right now.
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Sorry to hear youre going through stuff. Think positive and hopeful.
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Sorry that happened @jukebox. A vice is a vice and always is, so don’t be hard on yourself. I’m sure she’ll come around.
Vices are hard to quit. Hang in there
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I threw away the vice…no more no more…I can do this…I know I can…for her, for me…for the pets…I don’t want to lose my happy home.
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Relax and do some breathing exercises. You have a good heart, you didn’t want to do this. Maybe let her know how much it hurts you.
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I’ve been crying through the door telling to please not leave me…she says “you left me”…she is really , really hurt and I deserve this anguish.
Gosh juke sorry man
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thank you @Nomad I am praying it works out…she is still shut up in her room.
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I hope things smooth over. Maybe just give her some space to calm down then 
talk
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We are not here for judgement. Hopefully she will forgive you. Maybe slip a note under her door asking forgiveness? You can only try to do better next time.
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I’m sorry jukebox. Love can do crazy things sometimes. I know you love her. So don’t give up. I’ve been with dude for 17 years. Hugs
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Hopefully if you stay away from your vice she’ll see that and she’ll not leave. Actions speak louder than words so show her by your actions that you mean it
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thanks…yes I aim to keep my promise now that I’ve let her down…perhaps she won’t leave if I can really , really give up the vice.
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it’s the morning after…I hope my wife will like the letter I wrote her last night…a new day, a new hope.
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so your wife wants a divorce because you smoked a few cigarettes?
I am going to be honest jukebox this whole thing is very abusive for you. I feel bad for you, you don’t deserve this dynamic
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thanks guys…it was the way I used the vice…I hurt her feelings really bad…she is just hurt…waiting for her to get up this morning….a new day, a new chance to make it up to her.
Thats all we can do @jukebox , to begin again each day. Vices are like sickness, and they need treatment and care to overcome. Ive struggled with some terrible vices, but I only managed them (I wont say cured of them) with support and a lot of dedication. Cant do it alone.
Better to recognise the vice, apologise to anyone its hurt, and strive to TRY to not do it again.
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thanks man…yes I am doing my best to stop…good advice.
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