I feel like I need change

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I’m not particularly sad or feeling bad emotions

But I feel like I need change

I think about buying new clothes, dying my hair, I want to travel

The new thing I’m gonna do soon is have Creole lessons (I paid the first amount to reserve my place It starts 3rd March)

I don’t feel at my place where I am

I don’t hate the city where I live in, there are interesting activities

But I don’t like the people (a lot of young people here act like thugs It makes me feel unsafe to wear what I want)

And it’s not that safe (there had been shootings in some parts of the city)

It’s a while I want to move out (I already said that I want to live in French Caribbean but I think if I lived in Normandy or another good place I would feel much better already)

I can’t go live at my dad’s home(he lives in Normandy)because he’s dirty and mean and he wouldn’t drive me much to other place than his village

I couldn’t handle live with him too long I think

My mom asked to move out but I don’t know how long will it take for them to give her a place to move out

I would love to live in Versailles (it’s one of the places she asked to move out there)

So I don’t know, there’s something missing in my heart

I don’t know if it was already like that for a while, if it’s withdrawals after this toxic job

I don’t really feel empty but almost

Anyone have advices ?

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Definitely learn creole it’s a fun thing to do learn language

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Yes, I’m looking forward to it

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I’m not following what you’re saying. Do you currently live with your mom?

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Yes, I live with my mom

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So are you hoping to move elsewhere with your mom, or elsewhere without your mom?

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Just move elsewhere, no matter if my mom is there

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Someone on a forum told me hair dye could boost my spirits

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France would be a nice place in my opinion

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I already live in France but I don’t like the city where I am

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Ok, I also live in France. I don’t ask you where you though

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Well, try changing up your regular day. Like try new activities, hobbies, types of exercise etc. that can help a lot.

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Oh, you’re French too?

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Yep, nice to meet you

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Ok, I’ll try

I have sudoku , coloring, origami books

I didn’t work out for a while because I don’t feel that good these days (Today I wasn’t dizzy though)

I started a new Thai serie a while ago

Recently I started to watch new things though

I started to watch dolly and bubbly youtubers that wear cute and colorful outfits

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Nice to meet you

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What about Thai chi for exercise ? It’s slow movements you can follow in videos. It helps clear your mind like meditation.

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I never tried

Thank you for the advice

I’ll look for videos on YouTube

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Your post style is similar to a woman here years back

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Oh, really ?

That’s not me though

I started to write on the forum around September 2025

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