Yeah, I have considered it a lot. even adoption. but I worry if I can be a good parent. I don’t want to do something im not 100 percent sure of. Plus I have tons of anxiety. but if you are 100 percent about it then its a good decision 
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Freelunch I suppose… but I felt uncomfortable with the idea to have children just to have someone to look after you in old age… but that comes from lived experience.. my mum looked after her in laws and her mum .. she rarely went away or took a break
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my 19 year old son is smashing in life
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In my past I had some women wanting me to impregnat them
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I get upset about it bc I feel like I am too old now and weak 
I wish I could have a wife & family but Its looking unlikely.
@Zoe I heard that after the pregnancy the bits get there shape back and heal etc, some women heal very well, I am sure your bf won’t mind and you both be happy to have a healthy child.
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My daughter is great company. She is loving, funny and caring. She’s 8 now. As they grow up they are more independent. I would never regret motherhood and get so much out of it. I’m an elder mum and am glad…
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Im.looking for job. Then i will.look for wife if evrything be ok maybe we will have children
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I don’t want children at the moment. I’m not financially secure enough and it’s extremely expensive raising kids. It wouldn’t be fair to my kid to bring them into this world being poor.
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But you must have hope
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yeah I wanted a child when I was younger but then i got ill and now i am considering it again though i am not sure. it is a huge responsibility like massive
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i probably wont have children even tho i want. I feel i am not designed for it in my brain even though my heart wants.
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yea i am not hundred percent sure i thought making this thread will give some clarity because u guys are clever too, not just me. I guess dog and cat it is but they might burn the house down
it is just so sad when I want kids but dont have the brain for it
I feel empty idk what to do about that emptiness of being childless
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look on the bright side zoe wat if ur kid was destined to kill itself? or have a muscle wasting condtion
No need to let darkness inside yourself
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Thankyou @Raptor_Z
If you want children go for it do what you want
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Fear is your biggest enemy
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yeah fear is not amazing but life is a process, 
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Life is life … Its something we must go through till the end
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true life is indeed just life, make the most of it :))
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