I have 3 adult children and I’m so happy I was chosen to bring them into the world.
I am really happy for you; sounds great
I have five children and it’s a lifelong commitment. Every stage is extremely difficult. You need to make sure you are mentally stable, financially secure and have a good support system in place for the well being of your children and yourself.
i am a child of 5 too. i am the oldest one.
I think you can do it but @sweetpotatopie is right you need to master your symptoms to a higher degree first imo
Last week you were struggling Zoe and you would be hard pressed to manage a baby in that state
Anyway just my two cents
But I think you should aim for that
if you get a dog then I’d get a nice gentle breed, something that doesn’t require too much exercise (unless you plan taking it out all the time) also, its good to check your area for places the dog might like, I wouldn’t get a dog if you plan on getting a job unless your bf can fill in, dogs don’t do well being inside all the time.
if you plan on getting pregnant then you will have a full time job with the baby as well, I think a dog would be easier to keep than a baby.
Just cos you have psychosis, does not mean you can’t have kids. All I am saying is be sure about it. That’s all.
my son is better looking than me
Just be careful with having children cause I want to have kids also but I don’t want to give my kids schizophrenia either,cause I would feel terrible if I knew my son,or daughter goes through what I go through everyday and night. Don’t want to scare you just a thought to remember ![]()