I was thinking last night how short life is. Ive spent my life trying to please people and to fit in but I realize that the whole status thing doesn’t really mean anything in the end.
Peoole try to make you feel bad and to get you into their world where their opinions matter and how they live is how you should live.
■■■■ that…I am who I am and in 50 years I’ll be taking a dirt nap for eternity. I will be myself and try my best to be kind and not hurt anyone.
Im not the brightest guy but I think this is wisdom. Be yourself and try to help others…
I hear you man, I’m gonna fight for what I want and if others rate it or not - give a S***; it’s my rules therefore my wins and celebrations - only I will feel the love for me when I’m in buried deep
Ok @tarnishedLotus but just a tip im sure those type of comments are only allowed in a recovery, help seeking context on forums. It can be triggering for some
That kind of inappropriate behavior is unacceptable. You don’t want to negatively impact your friendships with others because of a comment like that. Consider this a warning. Everyone here is a gift and should be treated that way. Thank you.
Not sure what the undertones of the posts were, but I am not taking sides if there was beef between members btw. I just thought it was a hoorah, let’s celebrate individuality thread
Hey guys I know sweet potato already commented and @tarnishedLotus and @ducky seem to have made amends about it. But just need to note that according to the site rules it says:
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KEEP IT PG-13
Please refrain from using any vulgar or inflammatory language that would offend someone else.
Please, no pornographic material nor pointers to it. We understand that sexual health is a component of mental health, and we do allow discussions on these topics. But keep it PG-13, and do not use graphic/erotic descriptions. Clinically accurate terminology is best for our purposes.
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From what you said @tarnishedLotus it seems, to your credit, that you made a social mistake and what you intended to be a joke came off as serious and offensive to OP. That being said, it was an inappropriate comment and breaks the rules:
”Please refrain from using any vulgar or inflammatory language that would offend someone else.”
and
“keep it PG-13, and do not use graphic/erotic descriptions”
Joke or not it was said in a way that seemed more graphic and serious, and ducky has every right to be offended at it.
Everyone here deserves to feel its a safe and comfortable space, so its just a warning this time, but next time it will likely be a suspension of some kind.
It feels really bad to feel dragged back down into suffering but im trying to keep in mind im mentally ill and im not alone on the planet. I try not to hurt peoole or cause peoole problems but the negativity keeps coming.
I think its in these moments that you have to remeber what’s important…that dirt nap is near…. And I have to TRY to enjoy and be kind…despite all my problems and possible enemies.
Bro.. causing each other suffering is out right foolish…
…I knew it was a bad idea i just got a little careless. It was a dumb thing to say….