I think you’re being a little too suspicious. When he texted; it’s going to be hard to get ahold of me, it seemed like he was just trying to tell you something about his location or something else, making it hard to communicate. I don’t think anything suggests he’s being evasive.
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You didn’t lose a friend exactly if you are the one who decides to end it.
Sounds to me he was trying to tell you he would be busy for a while. If he didn’t care about you he wouldn’t have texted at all imo.
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It can take a while to hang with my best friend, we’re both SZ and I don’t like hanging out when I feel bad.
I calmed down and just told him we were incompatible and that the timing and proximity was off and that I was emotionally drained which is all true. I think part of the problem was that he was trauma dumping on me then would change the subject when it came to my problems. I have enough friends and family to support me. I also noticed that people were judging me here as a bad person based off of one post instead of offering advice , so I’ll limit posting here and on discord. Not sure what that was about but I know my character and I know people aren’t perfect. Something that people seem to forget when they’re trying to fit in.
I don’t think anyone meant to judge you here, it just sounded like you wanted to hang on to the friendship when considering the title of your post, and people were trying to encourage you to stay friends, but ofcourse if the friendship doesen’t work you are probably better off letting go. I too have ended friendships in the past that just didn’t work.
Hope you keep posting if you want to.
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