My friend told me he was going home for two days to be with his family and friends. He didn’t talk to me for two days so I went on about my way as usual. I finally texted him on Monday and his response was: I was just thinking about you. But the whole day had passed? Then he told me his friend was coming to visit and he needed an hour to study so I was like ok just text me later.. Then he texted back: Oh I forgot to tell you, it’s going to be hard to get ahold of me. So I just blocked him? Because he was playing with my time it seemed like. Now today he’s asking me my time zone lol This was kind of long distance as he is on the West Coast and I am on the East Coast. Should I play the game he’s playing? I’m kind of bored and have time I just would honestly though like to spend my time doing something else but I’m petty lol ![]()
You are overthinkin, and probably young.
Stick here..
I’m 32 lol I knew what I was doing. What do you mean by stick here?
Your friend just seemed busy.
So much drama. What for?
Nothing serious happened
That’s fine but I’m also busy. I have been taking care of my 92 year old aunt who is sick and they expected me to respond back. If I wasn’t I wouldn’t be reacting that way.
I don’t think it’s drama because nothing did happen. I just blocked him and left it at that. That’s not drama it’s just setting a boundary.
You are overreacting. Sometimes people have stuff to do.
I don’t think I’m overreacting I don’t really know that man.
Well, it’s on you. It was your friend.
I think blocking him is very passive aggressive and overdoing it.
I think it’s ok to block someone as long as you’re setting a boundary.
Idk maybe give him a bit of space
Maybe you felt he was disrespekting you and your time and seeing you as someone he can ignore and maybe you felt that he was the one passive agressive in his vibe and mannerism.
Can you talk it out or resolve it ?
People can be bad behaved n disrespectful in ways that cant really be proven sometimes.
You are the one who knows how you feel and what happened and maybe you missunderstood each other and maybe you didnt.
If friendship can be saved or not.
Maybe you csn talk to him and tell him you and yohr time are of value and to be disrespekted and if he wamts to hang out he should value n respekt it and you.
I’ll think about it I guess. I’m just angry
Maybe I’m angry because we dated for a week and he said he was confused but still wanted my company
If your feeling is to block someone go for it, you can always unblock if you change your mind.
Just chill and see what happens. I went through this with my ex and pushing to talk Basically made her stop talking to me. In my case I was much better off to let it go but if your friend is a real friend..just give it time
I’ll try this. I’m just a little bit upset I think that’s why it came off that way.
i refuse to play games with people. IF they play games i usually just ignore them and write them off as a friend