My family is really toxic

I said earlier how I was treated by my family when I suffered at work and was in distress

For more than a week, my bro has difficulties eating and sleeping

He almost doesn’t eat anything, just some yogurts and marmelade

I just went in the living room to eat and my bro talked to me complaining than my mom when my bro didn’t succeed to eat pasta was like “Pff you don’t eat You don’t do efforts”

My bro is thinking maybe he will not survive and he’s treated like sh*t

It made me angry and sad

I talked about the way my mom act (agressive, screams and says disses all the time for no reason) on another forum and they said to me I should take distance with her and that I defend her because I love her, but I can’t stay surrounded by toxicity like that

The way she treated me recently because of my issues with my job and the way she treats my bro now really makes me want to take distance

She keeps treating me badly, I come to her when I feel bad (and sometimes she hugs me, comforts me) and most of the time she says I’m annoying, diss me, say I’m a good for nothing

Imagine if my bro dies, he would die with horrible last memories

He’s already not happy to be back in France after his working holiday in Japan and he came back in a toxic environnment

It makes me really sad

I want to cry

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Why would he die, he has problem or just no appetite?

He has an issue to eat, it’s difficult to swallow

He went to see different doctors, they don’t know what he has

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I have some trouble swallowing some foods on my medication

It can be something benign like a neurological issue like mine caysed by meds

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Aight

I told him if he keeps having issues to eat he should go to the hospital

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Yes. It is all we can do. Sometimes these worrisome things happen in life, but life goes on and we are ok.

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Yes, when he says maybe he will not survive I say to him if he goes to the hospital it should be okay

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Yes he must not wait. The worry he is putting his family through is too much. He should get his problems investigated.

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Yes, he went to see different doctors

They all gave medications

He didn’t want to take the medication of the first doctor because it was an appointement online and didn’t have trust in him

He went to see his doctor that didn’t give him medication and just told him to do a mouth test to check something

He went to see my doctor to have medication, she gave to him a medication similar to what the doctor online gave

He started to take the medication and then stopped to take it after a couple of days

He went to see his doctor again, to say the test didn’t show anything and his doctor gave medications

He started to take it and now he wants to take again the medication my doctor gave to him

He doesn’t want to try eating soup, saying he saw on the internet he shouldn’t eat that

He does a lot of worrying things

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He should take the medication if he has a diagnosis.

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He doesn’t have a diagnosis, they don’t know for sure what he has

They just tried to guess what is possible

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Oh i would be hesitant to take medicine in those circumstances. But if the medicine is safe i would just take it to see if it works. If the doctor is not so concerned maybe it is not serious issue?

I don’t know if they’re concerned but they told him to try to eat things like soup, and if he still have difficulties to eat to come back

His doctor is in holiday now so if he goes back to see a doctor it would be mine

Oh I wish for him to get better. Eating soup should not be a problem, I dont know what he read online, but as long as the soup has good ingredient he should be safe to eat it.

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Chocolate milk has a lot of calories, or probably better; those nutrition drinks.

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Thank you

My mom always take food without additive

The soup she takes is full of vegetables, it’s healthy

Maybe after a bit of reflection he will accept to try to eat soup

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Thank you for the advice

I don’t know if he would accept though

He said he read on the internet he shouldn’t drink too much milk

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Maybe try orange juice. I don’t know if they have milk free nutrition drinks.

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Good idea

I will tell to my mom to buy that

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They say they have dairy free nutritional drinks in France.

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