I'm not okay at all

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My family forces me to keep working even though I’m not feeling well in my job for me to have unemployment financial aid

But I asked questions to ChatGPT and for me to have this aid my resignation needs to be legitimate

So if it’s not considered legitimate I will not have this aid

I started to cry

Why am I suffering like that ? For nothing

I have enough

I’m so anxious about going there

I don’t want to go there

I have enough of my family dismissing my feelings, screaming at me when I say I don’t want to go at work

I’m not okay

I keep being so anxious and crying

It’s not normal

I shouldn’t suffer because of a job

I have enough

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sorry to hear this :confused: its not fair you should have such pressure when youre already sick! :frowning:

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Talk to your psychiatrist. Say you’re unable to work anymore. Surely they’ll write a letter saying your resignation is “legitimate” as you’re on an antipsychotic medication.

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not to be rude but if your family continues to pressure you you should consider living alone. that kind of pressure is unhealthy

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Last time I talked to my psychiatrist and talked about a sick leave she said you don’t give a sick leave for nothing

It’s my doctor that gave me a sick leave

And in all case I don’t see my psychiatrist before March

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I had to resign from my job because it was the best decision for me. I got SSDI. I’m hoping to go back to work in a few years if I get better.

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I don’t consider that as rude, it’s true they shouldn’t treat me like that

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I plan to go live with other people from my family in the future

I live at my mom’s right now in France mainland

I would like to go at my grandma’s in French Caribbean

At my grandma’s home there’s my grandma, my Godmother,my cousin and sometimes my godfather is there too

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I’m so sorry vaiana. If the stress is too much you have to do what’s right for you!!!

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I thought about locking myself at home and not saying to work I don’t come

They should just fire me

When I was threatened to be fired it surprised me because the words used were violent, but after wise I was like “ in all case I wanted to resign”

If I’m fired and that I worked enough I will have the right to the unemployment financial aid

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Are you feeling any better? What did you decide to do?

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I feel you, the only time my parents kind of respect me is when I have a job even if it’s subconscious. Still kind of hurts. I kind of ignored it because they haven’t kicked me out yet. think they’re just trying to do tough love but sometimes it used to make me want to run away. Don’t do that though. Ask your psychiatrist when you see her, how you can work through it.

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Running away doesn’t work don’t do it

I’ve done it so many times and it just a full circle

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I know what it’s like to feel trapped with no options. You’re almost forced to suffer. Sometimes explaining yourself to your family helps sometimes it makes it worse like a haunting spirit. Sometimes the best thing you can do is be misunderstood. You have to do what you have to do to survive. Sometimes the things we have to do aren’t the most enjoyable things. A lot of times it feels like no one can help and you’re all alone. Sometimes we feel like giving up. Things will work themselves out. In the meantime try to find those moments of peace.

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goodness…french carribbean…sounds like heaven…sorry you get so stressed about your job…I can’t work.

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i hope you can do that for yourself. You dont deserve to be in a constant state of stress. Hope you can get your own place soon.

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I feel better I guess, even though I just bickered with my mom about something

I still don’t know what to do honestly

I feel so much pressure from my family and I have a little voice in my head telling me I exagerate

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Thank you for the advice

It’s a good idea

Several months ago I talked about the fact my mom screams at me a lot and my psychiatrist said my mom is surely tired

But my psychiatrist didn’t tell me how I should act

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I tried to explain to my family my feelings but they were screaming at me “Just do it”, they were talking like I overreact

They didn’t listen to my feelings, they’re just focusing in their own opinion and forcing that onto me

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Yes, last time I went in French Caribbean I stayed 6 months I felt much better (I went during a Gap year for my mental health)

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