Relationships are hard if your an isonlationist. Gawd. I spent four years in a relationship with a gal who voted for Trump and i’m a leftist. Go figure.
Honestly have that conversation which is always hard for us and sort it out. Like be kind to yourself but be open about your insecurities……That is how good relationships work for me…Yeah we’re married and you would vote for Trump. Frigs sake I should have known this aint going to work in the long run!
It doesn’t hurt if they knock you out. The two times I had it done they wheeled me into a room, said a few words then put me under and I woke up in another room and left. No pain during, no pain afterwards. Having it done could save your life.
Maybe talk to her about it. If it were me, I’d offer an hour each day of my undivided attention to answer questions etc. let her know that’s the time you’re prepared for it. Explain that you’re used to peace and quiet and that this is a major adjustment for you and that you’re trying but need her to help you out by just doing it during that hour.
I have a friend who bombards me with questions so I get the struggle.
My only question to my partner these days is when are we getting engaged … when he told me it’s June I still ask the same question hoping the answer is different. I don’t like suspense or surprises and not knowing things. I need to know the details.
