I always sense in the back of my mind my wife is trying to cheat or at least want to cheat.
I did caught her sexting with other girls on Facebook messenger,I talked to my father and said I wanted to divorce but he said I was wrong to snoop on her phone and divorce cannot be rushed it comes with procedure.She is a Filipino while I am Malaysian.We already have a 4 year old son.Its been almost 3 year since i caught her sexting and since then this has always been on the back of my mind.Why would my fathers said that I shouldn’t have looked in her phone in the first place and why he said divorce is not he be rushed and is a procedure.BTW,he did said if she got caught once more we would kick her out of the house as she is staying with us
Sorry to hear about that. Cheating is one thing I would not forgive. Forgive yes but continue the relationship no. That’s just me though. I hope you can figure this situation out for yourself it’s especially hard if you have kids etc. wishing you good luck!
I have schizophrenia and i know there is one delusion about cheating but I did see the sexting and took photo of it and send the photo to my sibling about cheating they both have different opinion
I am thinking suspicious of my wife is paranoia but I did get caught her sexting thought but it’s three years ago but this thought is always troubling me
I am also angry because she doesn’t think she is wrong and feel she is a victim instead,but we are official married and as a man/guy it feel unacceptable,I felt worst the it’s easier if a girl get cheated then a guy who get cheated by his wife
Ok, yes I see. It is not uncommon to be suspicious of wife cheating if she has done it in the past, although she has only been caught sexting so far it seems. SZ can obviously make our thinking obsessive and paranoid as well as many more cognitive problems.
Ok I hope your right,I never have opportunity like she does with relationship,as a man I worked all my 20s,now in my mid 30s I provided her financially 100% and she still isn’t happy but this incident shocked me and the more I dig three years ago the more I see why I have this thought at the back of my mind.Beside I miss opportunity because the medication caused sexual issue so I was very low confident with girl hence I married a Filipino instead of a local girl,and I was very disappointed and angry when I caught that and it’s not only with one person.Now she always treaten to leave me but I gave her all the things and provide for her so Idgaf about her treaten
I have remained single largely to avoid many of the problems you are having. You have children, so you have accomplished that at least. I do not know if your wife has been unfaithful, as I wouldn’t take sexting with other women very seriously. But I don’t have details. Sounds like your marriage is having difficulties that are quite common. If you want to stay with her, I would let go of the past. If she continues to cheat or you are obsessing over it too much for too long it is probably best to end the marriage.
Yeah I’m such an extrovert. I can’t even imagine not rolling with it somehow. Personally, bisexual interests in a partner only turn me on so there’s that