Are you better off single?
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Yes I prefere being alone without family or friends. The only expenses I’v got now are myself and this has made my life much easier.
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I don’t think I have ever been single. I was 16 when I found my spouse, that was 23 years ago. I have not lived single life. I don’t know will I miss having wild single life at some point of my life.
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THere are benefits and drawbacks to both being married or with a partner and being single. I guess you just have to weigh them and decide.
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I’m very content being single
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I had a partner for 14 yrs but single the last 10yrs, I am not a fan of single life, being with someone was very rewarding for both I think.
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If you find the right person it is probably worth it to be in a relationship.
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married ppl live longer…
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I’m a loner. I don’t need people. I’ve grown accustom to my mom being around. A young tender never hurt.
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I was married to a monster.
I’m better off single
There was way too much drama being married to her.
Glad it’s over.
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if my soul m8 is out ter she will find me
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It’s nice to have someone in your life who actually likes you, that’s a priceless thing. At the same time though I’ve only really been interested in sex, as I don’t really find relationships very fulfulling. Now that my sex drive is minimal, it seems pointless unless I find the ultimate partner for me who: leaves me alone, has similar politics and interests, schizophrenia probably, has no ambitions and just wants to chill, etc.
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I loved being married and being a step dad but the rule of Paul is never marry anyone crazier than you…So. I love my single life and it’s hard to date on a pension and living with my father and basically being a carer now.
Life makes other plans but I’d never say no to a decent relationship with a compatible person. Lifes too short says me who’se now 56!
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I want someone to bake cookies with.
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I never dated anyone so I can’t really compare
But recently I would like a girlfriend
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I dont think ive been compatible with most partners i had.
I think someone sane , solid, calm , protective but not controlling or opressive or jealoys, loyal , caring , loving , safe , knows me , respects me , has done inner work and or is doing it , emotionally and financially stable , home owner , if not vegan then at least cares n respects meat n environment etc , cool spirituality i digg n agree with or mostly agree with, passionate, connect with, able have sexy living respectful etc eye contact, go for outings togwther, takes care of his body and being such as tries to exercise n eat well etc , wears Harem pants at least sometimes , open to us learning to danxe together , is generous yet have seperate finances and live seperately even if i stay at his place 5 nights a week we still have our own to fall back on, grounded amd secure in his divine maskuline that safe and sexy and awesome, sexually respectful n safe n compatible n passionate n loving etc (im currently Asexual ), will cook for me sometimes maybe together sometimes and maybe i for he sometimes , can share a laugh or laugh together would be nice n have good flow in conversations and activities , makes safe space for me to be n ferl like myself to be n exist n thrive .
One x i went well with.
Felt safe n at home n like myself in my own body for first time perhapz .Sex was not good n he said im worst sex he ever had n i did not feel sexually connected ecstatic liberated lovemaking etc either but life was good otherwise more important than sex we had loving peaceful home and cooked for each other , gardened , had outings etc.
I left peaceful home to becone vegan n he didnt want a vegan in his house.
Life became worse when i left.
From ferling qt peace and present in my body most of time i then felt disconnected n other stuff.
I have no sexual desire or feelings.
I dont mastufbate or have sex n am a sexual.
Had sexual trauma in past.
Also my body moving n awake and safe and liberated etc isnt feelin much but disconnected.
With right partner maybe.
The way i have been treated year after year and bullied n excluded n kinda isolated n disrespected n opressed etc i wonder why no one stood up for me or questioned my abusers just cause they rich n popular n connected etc.
How will i ever meet a romantic partner or friends.
Why did they not speak up for me or be there …
Hope N faith exists perhaps but ive been alone amoung such it seems for so long .
Where are my kinda people…
A people good to and for me .
They turned all politics n religions n finance situations n types of people against me .
No one asked me what i survived .
People believe what looks n feels n seems ..
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It kind of saddens me how many schizophrenics are single. I see a lot of women out there with some pretty lame ass looking dudes hanging off their arm. I’ll be damned if I don’t find a sexual partner before my time is up on this Earth.
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I got on an perphenazine, an older antipsychotic, a couple years ago. My libido came back, and I ended up dating a few people. Hooked up with one of them. Now, on zyprexa, I’m really not interested. I enjoy my alone time, and am no longer actively looking for a girlfriend or partner. I’m fine with that.
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