Life is boring, repetitive, tedious. No friends, no women, no life…
I’m still waiting on something to pull me out of here via my third eye. All the other attempts failed due to their selfishness.
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It makes sense to feel that way if everything feels predictable right now.
Is it that life is predictable and boring, or are you just feeling disconnected from things you used to enjoy?
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I think I’m just bored of my life. It’s the same life I’ve lived since 2017.
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I feel that way sometimes. You have to do something different. Duh, right? It’s true though. What can you do different?
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Either find part time work, or join a fitness class. Just got 0 motivation for either.
I think my life will change by December; hopefully some progression with music career; and defo physique will be good by then. Just gotta wait it out. Thanks man.
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Maybe you could try a new thing on a regular basis (a new recipe/restaurant),try new hobbies,talk to new people (don’t need to be their friend,just learn new perspective I change my favorite Discord server all the time so I talk with different people depending of days)
Sometimes to go out of the routine go to a concert,eat your breakfast outside, look at the events in your city there are probably some cheap ones,play with unknown people on the web (I play on board game arena)
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My life isnt tedious right now mainly because im staying in a relaxed state all day laying down, just get up occassionally to exercise or eat. I listen to music or write or whatever. Just chill… everything will come to you in time especially if you just lift and lay down the day. I’m all day on my devices listening to music in bed… if youre pacing around on your feet youre gonna be antsy.
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I feel you @Eternalaether
I’m sorry you are feeling like this. It sounds like you have some great goals but no motivation. I totally understand that too. I hope you get your motivation back soon.
Best wishes to you.
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Everyone has a meaning they want to derive from life. I stopped waiting for life to give me meaning. It was too slow and too boring not the meaning I wanted. I create my own meaning now and research books that will give me depth. I can’t read everyday due to the illness and being busy some days but I try. I’ve read a lot of books in my lifetime and they have affected my perception. The books I’ve read in the past 8 months have really impacted me probably because I’m older I see things differently. When I was in my thirties the only thing I thought about was getting a career and a woman. Now I could go without a woman. They all have baggage at my age. I’m 46. Everything is rational when you get older in relationships. People are ready to settle down and they have demands and a checklist. It’s a lot of pressure. You hang in there. Your perception will change.
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life is meaningless
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I feel the same sometimes.
I am bored of my favourite hobbies.
What can we do?
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It seems a bit absurd that in a modern world one would feel boredom among the possibilities presented, but guess no one is immune, myself included. Then again could be negatives and depression doing the talking. As a small consolation many are bored, hopefully at least not all the time. If there is spare energy to act, maybe new ways of thinking about things, hobbies and pastimes would be in order. But maybe it is necessary to accept boredom as a property of life of randomness of it all. But no timeless wisdom to offer, just some random remarks.
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