Ladies? How to do it?
All i have of value is that i will be nice to her and im a creative. Other than that I got nothin lol
How to pull a girl with very few cards to play?
Maybe I will let her have my ssdi check and I can live in a dog house in the back yard 
Being nice and creative are two solid traits. If those are your strengths lean into them.
One thing I’ve learned is self-loathing is not attractive to most people, and calling yourself horrible will hurt more than anything when trying to find a partner.
I guess i should try to cultivate my positives aloy more. And yea man..its crazy because when I see people putting themselves down its unattractive and it seems foolish but when I do it to myself I feel like im being honest and maybe letting people know I have problems…
I guess more confidence might get me a woman but I cant fake it … When i was actuallyan ■■■■■■■ i got some action but now that im really messed up it doesn’tseem to matter if i would treat a girl good .
I might do what freelunch said and get on dating sites. I think most ladies dislike me tho. One girl on the site called me a freak lol I had no idea that thats how she saw me…
The stats arnt good for sz males. Most sz men are alone. I accept it, and dont pursue relationships. The chances of it working out long term are worse than a sz man finding anyone in the first place. Not saying dont try, but you got to get all your ducks in a row. Appearance, hygiene, fitness, social contacts, employment, car, finances. Its possible without some of those, but its a material world.
I’ve had decent success on dating apps having gone on plenty of dates and developed four short term relationships.
I’m not a fan of them though. Dating apps cultivate a different form of rejection than face to face. In person rejection is fast and teaches us a lot about how we interact,
Online dating is a slower erosion of confidence and is constant rejection every time we get swiped left on or ghosted.
Me personally? I like a personal approach. In real life dating isn’t reduced by an algorithm or hidden behind a paywall, and you learn quick how to be less nervous and more confident and human.
Getting rejected sucks, and it took me a while to learn that it takes many rejections to get a yes, but I have more fun talking to people in public versus online.
It’s kind of fun because I have to be quick with my words and don’t have 5 minutes to an hour to respond like I do on dating apps.
That’s just my personal preference, many people love dating apps.
Yea man.. I definitely have experience the suck of dating apps. Im not catch but alot of those girls have really high standard because of the availability of men. I think I read somewhere that like 10%of guys get 80% of the traffic from weman. Mostly really good looking guys or rich guys.
I know when I pretended to have some money I got a really pretty girl when I was younger lol…ironically she was gold 
and I was not very good partner.
I would love yo talk to chick’s in the wild but like @Schizbro said…you have to have some stuff in order. Its a value based world and short or long term that will eventually reveal its self …at least thats what I think.
My therapist says I should try to find people into the same stuff as I am. I would love a creative girl we could do work together but those chicks have major options most likely…
idk …i might buy a dong house and jus g live in it lol
Not many women date down, you need to find a woman on your level. I have no desire to date. I take care of my mom. She keeps me company. I don’t know what to tell you. With online there’s more opportunities. Whereas in the past it might be impossible for a schz to date, now with more people with mental health issues, there’s more understanding. I worked with doctors who had bipolar disorder, there was a doctor on the old site with schizophrenia. I don’t know what you’re looking for. If I was dating I wouldn’t want to lower my expectations. I’d rather not date if that’s the case. I do understand what it’s like to want companionship and sex I’ve lived alone before. I wish you luck. It’s a process.
Yea man… i guess I could get a friend and a hooker 
serious tho…I prob have to work on myself alot to get a girl.
I want a girlfriend too but don’t know how
If someone calls you a freak unprovoked, that’s not a woman you would want anyway.
I think it was a misunderstanding that started it. But freak is a pretty specific word lol ■■■■■■■ .. B****** idiot but freak is like something is really wrong lol
I am a freak tho
I dont want a girlfriend.
It would be too much
Yea… same for me really but to have someone to chil with would be the shi t bro. Have you ever laid your head on a girl’s soft belly and just relaxed lol
If I could detach my head I guess I could use my own belly…its soft enough 
depends if you want a good one or not lol. if you just want a ho then all you need is money or some kind of external power. If you want a queen though then i think the best thing to do is focus and work on yourself and she will come along. Its better to attract then chase right? so the best thing is to just work on yourself and talk to a few girls here and there and youll find the right one eventually. But yea the main focus i think has to be on yourself. The less you want it the easier it comes.
Bro.. 100%. At this point I dont think i even deserve it lol
Im think8ng maybe if I get better find a friend and work with that. I need to find a way to be a healthier person but just contact with a chick would be ok!!!
I met my husband while I was working full time and he was disabled, both physically and psychologically. He was very kind, thoughtful, he had a great attitude about doing his best with the hand he was dealt. He is a good dad. He’s a gentleman. Now we’re both disabled but it wasn’t always that way. I love him for who he is, not his paycheck. He’s very limited in assets and pay. But he’s a good man whom I fell in love with.
you do brother… unfortunately the world is kind of materialistic, but the good thing is you dont want those kinds of women anyways… it just weeds out the good ones. Theres one woman out there for you and youll find her. Im not trying to preach but ill give my opinion on this: that the hero gets the princess. You dont have to chase girls or try to get in their dm’s really, just gotta focus on being the best you you can be! I think youre doing a great job, dont get down on yourself just because escourts arent running after you. You only need one good woman. Love truly does exist and when you conquer yourself your queen will appear. Build it and they will come as they say. Your intrinsically valuable and worthy of her now and always were and always will be but its just not the time now perhaps. destiny has greater plans for you at the moment .
I got a girlfriend when I was living in a group home when I had no job, no car and wasn’t going to school. I had nothing and I wasn’t particularly good looking but I guess she thought I was nice. She was living in the same group home and she was cute and nice and I think she genuinely liked me. She moved back in with her parents in a city 13 miles away and we used to take turns taking the bus to visit each other and we talked on the phone every day. I broke it off after 3 months, I still don’t know why, I liked her and I thought she was sweet. Yeah, I regret that, I had no reason to break up with her and I think she was crushed. She was schizophrenic too.
I hung around with a schizophrenic man once, briefly, but he had worse problems than me, which is hard to believe. Once when we were doing something I can’t remember, he told me to use my head, and it was something pretty unimportant, so I thought he was nuts.