How to get a girlfriend if you have major problems

Things that atract me to a boy as a bf, considering i cant speak 4 others.

Is wen a guy shows care in words and action, consistently, includin to thmslf.

Sensitivity but also an independant attitude with a huge splurge of humility

Looks dont matter much to me as long as the guy makes effort

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Devra u are so funny.

Yeah i dont do head either..

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I try but I am not great at getting a partner, its upsetting and makes me feel like a loser, I don’t think I’m doing anything wrong which makes it even more hurtful, I am now just starting to accept that I won’t meet anyone :frowning: its upsetting but it is a reality, I am praying for it, trying to remain hopeful but its ebbing away.

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Well, I don’t know what you’re talking about? It wasn’t anything sexual. It was something very trivial, and he thought I was dumb, for some reason.

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Yea im talking about me giving head. I dont do that. Its disgusting.

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Oh. No, it wasn’t anything like that. I wasn’t attracted to him. I felt sorry for him though. He was very vulnerable and abused.

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My bf is vulnerable too. It is one reason i feel connected to him.

We are both vulnerable.

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My ex was vulnerable too, we met in the mental hospital in 2002 and we were together until 2016 then friends for a few years, after I met another girl but she had some problems with thinking and it didn’t work out, (I mean she had a slight learning difficulty) I dated my friends support worker but it wasn’t to be, I sometimes think she might still like to go out but its awkward for me now and mixed up.

I only ever had sex with my first gf and I haven’t had sex for almost 10 years.

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According to Spice Girls you got to smile :slightly_smiling_face:

That’s what I’m banking on.

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Man…i feel you dude. If i dont become a good musician or poet or something I will be dry and alone forever

I thought it was super common. Oral sex give get is great lol

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Pg -13 please. Doesn’t need to get really dirty if you can understand that.

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Deleted. Inappropriate.

Yeah i think it can be great maybe for many people.

Just not my thing.

Ill keep it pg 13 so i will keep quiet for respect of the junior peeps

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Sorry..I didnt say anything graphics. Just a mention of oral sex but I forgot about the pg13 thing. Will follow rules!!!

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Yea.. I guess everyone has a thing!!! If this isn’t inappropriate I will love the music ..its my friend with benefits!!!

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Deleted. Not sure i should say that. :see_no_evil_monkey:

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If u can make a person of interest feel comfortable that imo is half way there to gf.

Youre not a freak. Sorry you think that.

Unless u mean it in a cool way. Lol.

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Yea i have to work on my people skills being polite isn’t enough lol

And yea not all girls make music or other stuff but I honestly belive all have songs in them.

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Yes lots of amazing girls out there :man_fairy::women_holding_hands::man_fairy:

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