Yeah np. I kind of think that theres some kind of balance in ppl one thing challenging then more natural at something else. My bf is a little slow sometimes but hes super smart at other stuff.
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Im so sorry to hear that. Thats rough. Try to hang in there if you can.
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Bro..no. you just havenât found the right chick yet. Real life ..you are a wonderful person and the right chick will see that man⌠keep looking and like you told me when i was considering suicide âŚdont loose control of your own ship. Sit back down and steer the boat broâŚ
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The universe is just communicating inadequacy to me on fundamental levels that I canât ignore
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Does anyone know the book 100 years of solitude?
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Would you agree that to some extent those are points of view. Not everyone will judge you the same bro.
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Not everyone has in the past.
But there is a recurring theme of inadequacy and I just donât want to partake of it anymore
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I just sent you this but broâŚyou dont need to judge yourself like that. Again man..those negative feelings of rejection warped perception. I see bad in everything but in truth many are goodâŚyou are good.
You can argue that there is inadequate in you but ultimately it depends on how you see and where you place the value.
If I didnt weight hope and alternative veiws of myself higher..I would probably be in a really really bad place all the time.
Bro..you ARE legit good/valuable person. You dont need the world just to wait till you find the right chick
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This woman wasnât stupid and the rejection belies some realities for me that are not amusing.
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I donât know how to grow through it yet
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No one is perfect its not the end of the world..
Just do what u can
Signleess has good vision he can see ur value too.
Sometimes we are just unlucky who we come across but its not the end
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I really like u a lot too as a person @FreeLunch tho idk why.
But obviously there must be something!! Otherwise i would not think that.lol.
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A lot of women are judged based on their weight and looks while the men judging them have pot bellies and arenât good looking at all. Itâs really unfair. On the other side, women often judge men by their paycheck which is also very unfair. @SzSupportAdmin is spot on. Lowering certain expectations and being realistic is more important in the search for a great partner when it makes you look at character and personality instead.
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I realized I need to see it from the ladies perspective. It might be easier but the solution in this case is understanding..not arguments
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Honestly I think the best option is to push major problems on the person of interest.
Like for instance plant drugs on them and then call the cops on them.
Then both have major problems and are equal 
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Hahaha âŚI think people actually would think this is a good idea lol
Seeing from others perspective has to help tho manâŚ
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I agree, but I adjust language for myself.
Instead of saying I need to lower my expectations, instead I ask myself âam I holding standards for a partner that I donât hold for myself?â
Basically I try to avoid double standards.
If I were to smoke and wouldnât date a smoker because of their smoking then that would be odd.
If I didnât like going to the gym or care about my diet, but would only date a partner who goes to the gym and eats super healthy that would be a double standard.
Basically I wonât ask anything of my partner Iâm not willing to get on board with myself.
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Haterzzz gonna Hate.
I was called a Ho and ugly all my teen years and i was not.
Many had sex with me but it was not as seemed or by my concious choice etc
I never got a boyfriend.
Respect.
That kinda good Lovin.
And Care.
Etc
Horrible things went on and i cant sne eont begin to say.
Explaining oneself and experiences seems pointless but a better dayzzz n respect is possible.
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Deleted. I cant be bothered to explain anything. Im really tired, sorry
If you read my post âŚI want to apologize. I think the reality is there are unfair ways of seeing treating the other from both sides.
Im not gonna lie I became a little defensive because of my own situation but when I really thought about it you do have a point even if there are other points of viewâŚ
It would be nice if we lived in a world that promoted altruism more but I think because we are built to go for our own benefit there will always be some kind of conflict.
Seeing each other seems to be the best option for me tho
Also⌠I wish i had a loving partner or friend like u doâŚ
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