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A person I had a falling out with 15-ish years ago (someome who I went to High School with) sent me a friend request on facebook, he deleted the friend request very quickly and then blocked me on facebook right after.. WTF? I cant get the thought out of my mind that hes looking for me and wants to kill me since he feels I betrayed him or something along those lines. What if he feels like he has nothing to lose in life and wants to murder me? I havent talked or seen this guy in like 15 years.. but I still live in the same city I went to high school at.

Its just weird that in a 15 second time frame he sent me a friend request, deleted it, then blocked me.

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There’s a girl I went to college with who liked me and freaked me out. That was 10 years ago. She looks at my Instagram page. She wrote me a love letter and bothered me for a long time. I thought she was out of my life. We shared two classes together in college. I was nice to her and she took it the wrong way. I understand how you feel paranoid. That’s how I feel about this situation.

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Yeah. Im trying to talk myself out of these thoughts like 1. Its been 15 years. If he wanted to kill me he would of tried many years ago. 2. He might of just accidently sent me a friend request, felt embarrased and didnt want me to see so he blocked me. Idk

Thanks @2Waynez

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That’s an awful lot of drastic assumptions based on a couple minor events. I think your doing the right thing thinking it through.

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True. Thanks Bowens. Im thinking of maybe deactivating my Facebook account. It brings me nothing positive.

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I sooo relate to this. Whenever something minor or trivial happens my mind automatically jumps to the assumption “they want to murder me”

It’s very anxiety provoking. Try to relax and give it time. Cos as time goes on and nothing happens that should ease your mind. I don’t think you have anything to worry about.

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I think you’re correct on time helping. Thanks.

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Hope you’re feeling better, man @TheCanuk Facebook was making me paranoid, too, so I deactivated it. Don’t miss it at all – I kept the messenger part of it though, just in case

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A little. Its still on my mind though. Just need the weeks to pass by. Thanks man.

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